It felt like we’d been driving forever, so I was tempted to ask my chaperone a second time, “How much further is it?” But I resigned; the question merely an excuse to fill the ‘void of silence’ bestowed upon one another as we drove along the long road to camp Bonnie Doon.
An exploration camp set deep in the hear [...]
Common Misconceptions of the FIFO lif...
It felt like we’d been driving forever, so I was tempted to ask my chaperone a second time, “How much further is it?” But I resigned; the question merely an excuse to fill the ‘void of silence’ bestowed upon one another as we drove along the long road to camp Bonnie Doon.
An exploration camp set deep in the hear [...]
It isn’t WHO you know, it’...
Lloyd Johnson is the author of The Secrets to Learning NLP and the lead trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming at Confident Future, an International Company dedicated to helping people achieve their life’s dreams and goals. Lloyd dramatically changed the way I saw the world which then, improved my results with women. GO FIGURE! In his [...]
Why men only want to know what to say
Most men come into the field of, “learning how to be successful with women” only wanting to know one thing – “What do I say”?
It’s understandable; the sun is shining out of a particular girls bum and all you want to know is how-to…bag-her-and-tag-her.
Oh? It’s not like that?
“She’s perfect in e [...]
Self Improve While You Drive
Please note that whilst driving any vehicle you must maintain a vigilance for the road rules, other drivers and road conditions.
A typical miner’s breakfast.
I’ve often been told by my editor not to mislead my audience with obscure titles for posts or chapters. But I like to challenge the norm, or, live and learn the hard way. (There’s plenty of value there).
So while in fact A typical miner’s breakfast may be the title for this post, it has absolutely nothing to do with food co [...]
Are You Taking Action Yet?
Today I chat with Alex Nova the founder of Attractwomen.com.au about the fundamentals of the attraction process. Also listen carefully for some actionable steps you can take to improve your results with women, your relationships and the quality of your FIFO life.
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Bars and Clubs Aren’t Your Savi...
Here’s an email I recently received from one of my readers.
Let’s see what Shaun has to say…
“I’ve worked a FIFO roster for about a year now and I am finding it difficult to find someone. I can’t blame the FIFO roster completely but it does make thing harder.
I tried the internet dating thing for a bit. I [...]
Interview with Cristy-Lee Macqueen no...
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Pocast #4 Are you a needy “Appr...
Today I talk about “Approval Seeking” and how and why it might be harming your results with women. Check it out.
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A quick chat with Deborah Cameron fro...
Today I have a chat with Deborah Cameron (ABC radio Sydney) about overcoming some of the hurdles a FIFO bachelor can run into when adopting the FIFO life.
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Today’s interview with Eoin Cam...
Check out the interview I did with ABC’s morning show host - Eoin Cameron.
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Facebook: the new way to seek approva...
There’s not too much in my upcoming book about “approval seeking.” To be honest, there’s not a lot about a lot of things in my book; it’s filled with loose ends. The reason? There’s a ton of material to cover and for those unfamiliar with the genre, I want to enlighten you – not bore you. So the book is introductory and foundational; [...]
You’re opportunity to get it fr...
For those looking for a bit of insight into the sometimes lonely life of a FIFO bachelor – or those looking seeking to be more successful with women whilst FIFO. I’ll be doing an interview tomorrow morning on Sydney’s ABC morning program (702am) at 9:40am WST, with Deborah Cameron . If you can’t make it, stay tuned f [...]
So you think all women are angels? We...
“Kitten, heels, lingerie, panty hose
Legs up on the bar, in the back or your car
Latex champagne, bubble bath, whipped cream
Cherry pop, tag-team, can you make me scream
I wanna do some dirty things to you tonight”
Now, I know what you’re thinking. Is he writing Poetry? And, “Have you lost your marbles Mr. FIFO Bac [...]
Is over-work causing you to feel nega...
I thought seeing as my book The Fly-in Fly-out Bachelor is currently in the hands of my editor, and I have some down time, I’d share a brief account of what’s being going on inside my head in the moments leading up to this point in the writing process.
Coming to the close of this project, I feel almost at a loss as to why I’ [...]
The Friend Thief: when the girlfriend...
OK so you’re on R@R, you’re out with your buds and you happen spot a particularly attractive girl. You’re thinking “Tonight’s my lucky night” because it just so happens that on this night, she strikes up a conversation/dance-off with YOU. You go son!
A flirtatious dance ensues – she gives you a comp [...]
Are you the master of your DOMAIN?
I’ll say it’s been a pretty crazy week/weekend this week. A week filled with relaxation, study and a weekend of fun with the women of Perth.
I thought I’d share one story in particular before I fly back to work tomorrow morning.
I hope this story strikes a chord with the many men who don’t feel that they are particula [...]
9 REASONS why you’ll never change or ...
You care too much what people think
In relation to your external image and behaviour, you play the role of mind reader and are forever trying to guess what people are thinking about you. You fear being judged, in your mind unproven judgments as seen as verifiable fact, and therefore you feel the urge to live your life by complying to a ficti [...]
Have your say on which cover design m...
With only a day to go in the contest, I don’t think there will be many more entries so post your vote now for what you think should be the cover of The Fly-in Fly-out Bachelor. And remember to sign up for my newsletter to get the release date of The FIFO Bachelor emailed to you personally.
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Podcast #3 Outcome Depedence and FIFO
In today’s podcast I’ll discuss why the “Outcome Dependent” mentality could be harming your results with women and causing you to appear less attractive.
Look out for the sequel podcast for the remedy to the “Outcome Dependent” mentality…
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Podcast #2 Approach Anxiety
Today I discuss the perils of Approach Anxiety or (AA) and delve into why it can be so harming to our results, why it’s so debilitating and what we can do to rid ourselves of it.
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“The: I just want to make her h...
I commonly hear a particular phrase in passing or intentional conversation that revolves around a man’s failing relationships, hang-ups and difficulties with women.
It is usually spoken with much frustration and exasperation:
“I just want to make her happy!”
Long-married men with three kids and a mortgage; guys with girlfriends who don’t r [...]
The land you dream of
“Four years, that’s how longs it’s been…”
To many an old FIFO hand I’m about as experienced in the “FIFO game” as the JOTJIES, (just-off-the-jet newbies) who stride across the tarmac for the very first time at Paraburdoo airport.
To the fresh faced JOTJIES, (dollar signs emanating from the back of their retinas), I’m Yoda. Or maybe Gor [...]
The first podcast installment from me...
Hey guys The Fly-in Fly-out Bachelor here -
If your a FIFO bachelor and you’d love to know how to become more successful with women - you’ll want to subscribe to these podcasts because they’re totally FREE and well worth your future attention. You can subscribe to them via Itunes by clicking here or you can get the direct [...]
Why would another man mock you for le...
Whether you’re new to this concept or have been working on it for years, you’re here because you want to improve your relationship skills. What a great goal! Surely no one would have reason to mock or belittle this form of self-help. Right?
Wrong.
Consider this scenario:
A co-worker overhears you talking about a book you’ve read on the subj [...]
Is your behavior on-site limiting you...
Do you drink every day after work?
Do you watch countless hours of mindless TV after work?
Do you consume too much food before bed?
Do you neglect to exercise regularly on site?
Do you forget to groom yourself and take pride in your appearance?
Do you read, or are you addicted to men’s magazines that put women on pedestals, I.e. Zoo, Ralph [...]
David D on longevity of attractivenes...
Many men come to mind when I think about what David is talking about. Hugh Hefner is a fine example. What stops you from increasing your attractiveness?
Don’t try! Make 2011 Happen
So it’s a New Year. Did you make any New Year’s resolutions? I don’t mean easy ones like “play more Call of Duty” or “eat more steak.” I mean real ones – you know – the kind that stretch your mental muscle and take you out of your comfort zone. Will they become a reality? Or will you again “try” to make them happen?
Let’s [...]
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